let me tell you why that's bullshit jacki

I've been to court several times trying to get things changed but no one will listen! My children are suffering but the court system doesn't care about their well being. He's emotionally abusive and at times physically abusive to them. He does not want them but doesn't want me to have them. He managed with the help of his family to get our custody agreement reveresed and become custodial parent of our two young children. He has managed to use the court system to his advantage. After our marriage I found out his true nature. The first stages of dating were great he was everything I thought I wanted. In fact I didn't even know what a narcissist was. At the time of marriage I had no idea that he was a narcissist. I have been divorced from my ex for over ten years now. I told him numerous times that I felt like I was his 'maid and whore.' As long as the house was clean, dinner on time, and sex anytime he wanted, he was somewhat happy. He was always telling me how inadequate I was. When we dated he treated me like a queen. When I could not pay him, he sued me for contempt of court and asked that I be put in jail.

He found a way to get out of his child support and then took me to court wanting $8,000 of it back. He always finds ways to inject himself into my life.

After the divorce I tried to keep my distance from him because my counselor said he was not a safe person for me to be around. He went for full visitation and I was told there was nothing I could do to black it even though I had proof that he exposed my 9-yr.

He was abusive to me and had a sudden temper so I was afraid to leave my son alone with him. He never wanted him, took it out on me for getting 'myself' pregnant, and said life would be better if son had never been born. He was the one who filed for divorce because 'he was not getting anything out of the marriage.' I stayed to protect my son. I was married for 15 years to a man who admitted to exhibiting narcissistic tendencies.

Let me tell you why that's bullshit jacki